When God writes your lovestory:Q and A
October 18th, 2008 October 18th, 2008 Posted in Uncategorized2 Comments
Good day! this is my compilation of interesting questions about love, preparing to become good husband and wife, preserving oneself for your loveone,and having a God-centered relationship.The answer also came from the book (When God writes your lovestory by Eric and Leslie Ludy). No revision made,no opinion added..Hope this will guide us in our journey for our sweet lovestory..
Q1: How can we know that our God-written lovestory will last for a lifetime?
A: We know that our God-written lovestory will last for a lifetime if it lies in the kind of love upon which we choose to build a relationship. If we build it on the gushy stuff or base it on physical attraction, we most certainly are headed for divorce, because one day we may wake up and realize those feeling aren’t there anymore.
must based on a choice. A commitment that says “I will your highest good above my own. I will lay down my life for you.” We need to think of the gushy stuff as merely the icing on the cake..it’s what adds that extra dimension of flavor to relationship.But it’s not the ingredients that keeps a romance together. If we don’t have a LASTING LOVE and COMMITMENT for our spouse as the foundation of our relationship, we don’t have anything at all.
Q2: How can I love someone I’ve never met?
A: Keeping to abstinence for my future husband. How would your future husband feel, if he could see you giving everything you are to these relationships? If he could watch you freely giving your heart, your emotions and your purity; treasure that belongs to him.
The secret to heavenly romance is to begin practicing purity for a woman and cherishing her thoughts, action and words, long before you even met her.
Q3: What if I don’t get married?
A: It is not merely for our future marriage here on earth that we do these(staying pure) things, it is also an investment in our glorius future marriage in heaven with Jesus.
“I am already taken.”
Q4: What do men looks for in a woman?
A: (based on four godly young men)
- who guards his heart and isn’t easy to get.
- have high standards.
- focused on God and isn’t easily distracted by men.
- doesn’t throw herself, but allows to win her heart overtime.
- “princess of purity”
Q5: What is real man?
A: A real man, the kind of man a woman wants to give her life to, is one who will respect her dignity, who will honor her like the valuable treasure she is. A real man will not attempt to rip her precious pearl from its protective shell or persuade her with charm to give away her treasure prematurely but he will wait patiently until she will willingly gives him the prize of her heart. A real man will cherish and care for that precious prize forever.
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